Running interference…
Squids are evil, aggressive lovers. According to the article I read just, male squids choose the biggest female in the pond (so to speak) – and protect this female from any other “would-be” suitors. If another male gets close enough to the male with the mate – he grabs the other ”suitor” and strangles it. Thus insuring nobody gets HIS woman.
There was a situation recently that I was able to witness this first hand. It was a woman protecting her man though. Oh – I know men do it too, they’re just more subtle about it. This particular woman blocked anyone trying to get near her man – whom I’m to understand isn’t really “hers” – but a play buddy for when there is a mutual event. She would be sure to stand in between the man and any other woman around if possible, constantly wrapping an arm around the neck of her ‘mate’. I found it amusing. I’m just glad she didn’t stangle anyone with her tentacles.
Squids or Humans, it’s seemingly apparent that everyone is looking for that love, that connection. Continually trying to find it in someone or something, taking on the pain when it doesn’t work out, and getting amnesia to try it all over again.
The art of love… is largely the art of persistence…. Albert Ellis
How much can someone take? How long until someone says enough is enough? I know some that settle for what they think they want and talk about what they have with an air of regret. I know some that continue to take chances to no avail, trying to find that one. I do have to admit I know a few, very little, but enough to mention, that are happy with what they have and wouldn’t compromise it for anything. I also know of some that are in relationships that are unhealthy for them, mentally, physically and emotionally.
I suppose everyone is different, how much they can take.
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